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I Didn’t Know I Had A Choice

When was the last time you felt helpless?  Have you ever been in a situation where you could not get out, no matter how hard you tried?  I bet you have.  Maybe you’re there now.

Author Greg McKeown tells the story about two psychologists who conducted an experiment using German shepherds.  They divided the dogs into three groups.  The dogs in the first group were placed in a harness and administered an electric shock but were also given a lever they could press with their noses to make the shock stop.  The dogs in the second group were placed in an identical harness and were given the same lever, and the same shock, with one catch: the lever didn’t work, rendering the dog powerless to do anything about the electric shock.  The third group of dogs was simply placed in the harness and not given any shocks. 

Afterward, each dog was placed in a large box with a low divider across the center.  One side of the box produced an electric shock; the other did not.  Then something interesting happened.  The dogs that either had been able to stop the shock or had not been shocked at all in the earlier part of the experiment quickly learned to step over the divider to the side without shocks.  But the dogs that had been powerless in the last part of the experiment did not.  These dogs didn’t adapt or adjust.  They did nothing to try to avoid getting shocked.  Why?  They didn’t know they had any choice other than to take the shocks.  They had “learned helplessness” (Essentialism, 36-37).

Learned helplessness.  Ever been there, done that?  We all have—in different ways and circumstances.  A child struggles early on with math and tries to get better, but when his attempts fail, he eventually gives up, believing nothing he does will matter.  A wife wants her marriage to improve, but after years of passive response from her husband, she files for divorce, fully convinced that nothing will change.  You desire to break free from that hurt, habit or hang up, but after years of failed attempts, you, like the German shepherds in the above story, have a learned helplessness, and you wallow in your accepted pit of despondency. 

Wallow no more.  The first step forward is the awareness of your ability to choose.  Recognize you have a God-given ability to activate an invincible power within you that exists separate and distinct from any other thing, person or force. William James once wrote, “My first act of free will shall be to believe in free will” (idem.). 

When you forget your ability to choose, you learn to be helpless.  Drip by drip, you allow your power to be taken away until you end up becoming a function of other people’s choices.  Don’t just recognize the power of choice, exercise it.  Celebrate it.  It will be a long journey, but it is a road worth traveling through the power of the Spirit and in community with others.  Don’t wallow in your accepted pit of despondency. 

“Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve . . . .  But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15, NIV).

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In Hoping for Heaven, We Have Three Options

My Grandad used to tell the story of an older woman who came up to him after he preached a message on heaven, and she was distraught.  My Grandad asked, “Aren’t you glad we have the hope of heaven?”  “Oh, yes,” she said, “but I’m just afraid all of my friends who’ve gone on before me will think I haven’t made it!”

We long for heaven, but in the waiting we should bring a little heaven to earth.  “Your Kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven,” said our Savior. 

Every time I ask a friend of mine how he’s doing, he answers, “Never better!”  After getting slightly annoyed at his interminable optimism, I asked him why he keeps saying that.  His response?  “Because every day I’m a little closer to heaven.”

I’ve been thinking a lot about heaven the past couple of weeks.  After hearing about several untimely and unrelated deaths, I’m reminded that, to quote the words of C. S. Lewis, “Nature is mortal; we shall outlive her” (The Weight of Glory).

If asked, most people would say they believe in heaven and want to go there.  They just don’t want to go through the portal of death to get there.  Death is the only guaranteed human experience that everyone will encounter but about which no one can testify.  That particular testimony would require someone to die and stay dead long enough to be a trustworthy witness, and then come back and tell us about it.

Oh, and that would be . . . Jesus.

Jesus said, “I am the resurrection and the life.  Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live” (John 11:25, ESV). 

In facing death and hoping for heaven, we have three options.  We can deny its existence and hang our hat on the hope of death having the final word.  We can fear its existence and hang our hat on the hope that our moral scale has tipped just enough to the good side that we make it in.  Or we can embrace its existence and hang our hat on the living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead (1 Peter 1:3). 

I’ll go with option three.  Why?  Because I’m going to stick with the Guy who “has been there, done that” and come back to show us the way to glory.  And one day, “The door on which we have been knocking all our lives will open at last” (C. S. Lewis).

“In the resurrection scheme of things, this has to happen: everything perishable taken off the shelves and replaced by the imperishable, this mortal replaced by the immortal. Then the saying will come true: `Death swallowed by triumphant Life! Who got the last word, oh, Death? Oh, Death, who’s afraid of you now?’ It was sin that made death so frightening and law-code guilt that gave sin its leverage, its destructive power. But now in a single victorious stroke of Life, all three—sin, guilt, death—are gone, the gift of our Master, Jesus Christ. Thank God!” (1 Corinthians 15:53-57, MSG).

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